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Conversation: Expert Ignorer
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Started by: ladydiva
on: 07/16/2008 04:26 PM |
| My X had a really annoying habit of anytime I'd try to bring up something that was important like tlaking about our financial debt, our distancing relationship, less than stellar sex life, he'd get this blank stare on his face and just tune out. I'd sit there pouring my heart out and telling him what I'd like to see change, and after a few moments of silence, I'd ask him what he thought. On more than one occassion, he'd just snap out of it and make some excuse about being tired, or distracted by something that happened at work. How is a marriage supposed to work out if only one partner is willing to discuss and try to solve issues? The answer: It won't. Sad but true. |
| 5 commentsLast comment: 07/23/2008 11:15 AM |
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Conversation: Incompatibility
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Started by: sportschickee
on: 07/15/2008 10:55 AM |
So as most of you know, I married pretty young. I thought that I was completely head over heels in love and that i would be satisfied to be married to my husband for the rest of my life. This would have been true except for one thing. I changed. I grew up, I have different interests than I used to, I hang out with different people, I started a new job. I make a conscious effort to keep my same feelings for my husband, but he didn't grow with me. He stayed the same. I don't know what to do. I feel so guilty thinking that he's not my type AT ALL anymore. What should I do? |
| 9 commentsLast comment: 08/04/2008 10:34 AM |
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Conversation: Reminiscing...
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Started by: pumpkin44
on: 07/09/2008 02:24 PM |
I often find myself wondering about past relationships that I ended...My husband and I are having problems and whenever I need to escape, I start daydreaming. I wonder if I made the right decisions with past relationships. Did I marry the wrong man? Is it terrible to be having these thoughts while I'm still married? I feel like a traitor. |
| 4 commentsLast comment: 07/16/2008 02:30 PM |
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Conversation: Do celebrities have the right idea???
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Started by: beachbabe
on: 06/30/2008 03:42 PM |
| Has anyone else noticed how different the world of celebs functions than our normal way of life? Flings are perfectly normal, dating last no more than a month, and NO MARRIAGES!! And no marriages=no divorces. This lifestyle sounds like a dream come true! No committments and no responsibilities. Just some good ol fashioned fun! Anyone else think this? |
| 5 commentsLast comment: 07/22/2008 04:33 PM |
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Conversation: I am B-O-R-E-D in my marriage
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Started by: sportschickee
on: 06/25/2008 12:05 PM |
I'm 25, my husband is 30. We've been married for 3 years now. The first year was great. We were in love and he catered to all my emotional needs and I did the same. He was my knight in shining armor. Then the newness wore off and everything changed for the worse. He started working more hours, stopped being cuddly, stopped caring about my feelings. In return, my heart grew colder and now I don't even like him very much. I now feel as our relationship is stale. I feel stuck in an emotionless marriage. The only time he shows any feelings is during sex and that is getting routine and boring. I am sick of imagining how great life would be without him. The only reason I stay is because I don't have anywhere else to go. Should I leave him or stick it out and hope for some drastic change? |
| 11 commentsLast comment: 07/16/2008 05:58 PM |
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Conversation: Confused and need help!
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Started by: beachbabe
on: 06/25/2008 11:25 AM |
I recently discovered gay porn on my husband’s computer. Does that mean that he is bisexual? |
| 8 commentsLast comment: 07/03/2008 10:38 AM |
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Conversation: Why??
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Started by: mhc20
on: 06/11/2008 10:45 AM |
It seems that all I have read or hear are stories of one person loving another person who doesn't love them back.
Why do we waste time chasing after people that don't feel the same as we do? We all do it. Everyone of us. We know not too, yet we do.WHY?
Is there true happiness? |
| 6 commentsLast comment: 07/08/2008 03:19 PM |
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Conversation: Women and arguing
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Started by: mhc20
on: 06/03/2008 12:15 PM |
| I once heard someone put it best. "Women, they don't fight Fair!" |
| 7 commentsLast comment: 07/16/2008 06:02 PM |
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Conversation: Abuse
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Started by: mhc20
on: 05/27/2008 09:59 PM |
| This is probably a very sensitive issue.
Are there people out there who are being abused by their spouses (physical and verbal) and if so, why do you stay?
I have heard countless stories of abuse and they all have one constant. It is very hard to leave. What is it that makes leaving an abusive relationship so hard? |
| 8 commentsLast comment: 07/03/2008 11:41 AM |
