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Conversation: Really confused
Started by: Nat44 on: 09/04/2011 10:27 AM
I was going thru my divorce when I met him. He was already divorced a full year. We hit it off and have a lot in common. We each have one child the same age. It was very intense sexually early on. About 2.5 months into it... He freaks out saying he doesn't think he's ready for something more serious. I wasn't either and explained that. Things were great for the next few weeks. The last time I saw him he seemed odd and he wasn't able to maintain an erection during sex. We spoke that evening ... Two days later he said he can't do this right now and needs time. I tried to stay in contact but he's essentially dropped off the face of the earth. Got one email a month later that he was sorry and missed me. I responded that I'd like to see him and accept him with his issues but haven't heard from him since - about one month ago. I really miss him and want to be there for him but he isn't receptive. Any advice?
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Conversation: Looking for an Infidelity Investigator?
Started by: mronio on: 04/07/2011 11:21 AM
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Conversation: Save Your Relationship Now
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Started by: 007 on: 12/15/2009 05:10 AM
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Conversation: how to recover after divorce?
Started by: ann on: 11/05/2009 06:12 PM
i have been divorce for 11yrs. but there been so many different scares ex cheated on me and theres been other man that have not been faithful either my ex sexaurey abuse me he put me to sleep and had sex with and i caught him having affair with a married woman and then i divorce him please help
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Conversation: my life
Started by: JT007 on: 10/08/2009 02:28 PM
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Conversation: The girlfriend
Started by: tink808 on: 08/05/2009 06:06 AM
My divorce was just finalized last month. It has been really hard on  meand my children and I have them both in couseling to help them cope. My son told me twice he would rather be dead than deal with his life. This is how serious an impact that it has had on them. One week into couseling my ex introduces the kids his girlfriend of 8 months, telling me how serious they are. I tried to explain that I thought this was bad timing and that I honestly didn't want her around my children. He disreguards all of this and continues to bring them around her. I know he is moving on and it's going to happen whether I'm ready for it or not... I just want to set ground rules that are reasonable. Does anyone have experience with this??
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Conversation: Considering Divorce
Started by: John on: 08/01/2009 07:59 PM
Hello,
I have been married for 18 years, my wife is Malaysian and has been in the States for over 25 years.

Her personality is the main reason I am considering this. I feel that as I get older I would be better off finding someone who will take me down a healther road.


Her personality:
-Loses her temper several times each day. -Wants me to help her, but 60-70% of the time if I ask her to help me she grumbles. -She can not hold down a job for more than 1-2 years. - She is not a team player with finances -When we argue she is like Sarah Palin, she cannot focus on the problem, she says things that dont make sense and takes off in 5 different directions.-She is sellfish, i.e. I build her a garden patio, I buy her things I know she loves for her birthday, I buy her expensive gifts and cook her Malay food. She has never bought me anything that I would want, only what she likes, it is allwasy associated with what she likes
-she is muslim and she defends terrorism-

Example of her communcation style; When she got divorsed from her 1st husband, I went to the mediation, the court appointed mediator had to remove her from the room with the ex and bring her to me to talk sense into her, because she kept loosing he r temper and she can not focus and say things an adult would say, focus on the issues.

I am worried that as we get older I will always worry about retirement, she is flakey and thinks that we should die broke.

She hates crowds, hates movies, sprays perfume on people in movie theatres because she thinks they stink.

She mainly wants to stay home and if I suggest going out she says " just go, sleep out on the street, you want to go out all of the time just go."

What I want is not to let life pass me by, I have been working 6 days a week since I was 13 so I think its ok to go out to dinner, go to a movie, go camping

She wont go to concerts, sporting games

She only wants to shop and go to her friends house and they are all Malay, and they dont speek much english at those parties.

I am not perfect, but I really think that she is missing a few basic communication skills and while she is smart, she can really miss the point.

I want to make it work, but I need better fair fights, better communication, to see progress, less selfishness, to come together a make a plan to retire comfortably etc.

18 years of marriage and she has never cooked an American meal, we cant have a dog, we dont eat pork, all becuase of muslim religion, she reminds me how her friends husbands have become religiouse and she expects me to later

When we fight she always threatens and says I should leave, or we should divorse

What are your thoughts
3 commentsLast comment: 08/16/2009 02:09 PM
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