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Started by: Sno on: 09/15/2009 02:33 AM
he started the divorce process then I got myself a lawyer then after two to three sessions with my lawyer he decided he want me back but now he is so abusive.he is hurting me physical and emotional,he swears at me and my family.He doesnt want me to use his appliances like dstv and radio sytem.he always refers to the house as his porperty not ours.went to get a court interdict for domestic voilence but the court date is on the 21 sept 2009.he is still abusive when a went to report him to the police he denies everything.yesterday he came in after 2100 from work and he was drunk then he started threating me that the court interdict is just a paper that wont stop him from doing anything.Then he said to he is going to his girlfriend but first he phoned her in front of me.WEhen he was about to leave he said he will lock me and leave with the key so i jumped for keys its where he started hitting me and bending my arms.I called the police but i was cut off becuase of airtime,ist where he decided to call them himself.They arrived in our house but he turned evrything agianst saaying im the one who is abusive,the police said he must go for interdict against me and went

At midmight he woke me up and started all over again i decided not to aswer him then he demanded sexual intercourse with me and i refused adn he swears to me.and i'm pregnant with my second child.He said today he is not going to divorce or get interdict for me.I am thinking of moving out but court said i must stay there till the court date.Im so hurt donno what to do anymore
1 commentsLast comment: 01/28/2010 11:47 PM
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By: athena480 on: 01/28/2010 11:47 PM

They can't make you stay there. Call 911 you can use it on a cell phone even if there are no minutes. I did it the other day, almost the same story.  I hope things are getting better for you.


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