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Started by: 2behonest on: 09/27/2009 11:13 PM
Hi, Iam 38 my wife is 35 we have three kids, 6, 5 and 11 months old. I feel as if my wife has had an affair and it is ongoing, we have been to couseling and I have been to speak with my Pastor. My wife is acting very weird and I have caught her in numerous lies and she has changed cell phones and put screen locks on them, she sleeps with her phone and just woke up and turned it on to look at it in front of me and said she was checking the time...I am torn as I know something is going on and she wont fess up to it nor will she stop her little games of going for late wlaks, talking or typing texts on her phone in private and then there is the computer too...Not sure what to do, she wont talk about this and always says "here you go again" you will never change!
Any advise?
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By: devasted on: 02/13/2011 11:51 PM
im not saying you are wrong but i am trying to look at this from your wifes persepctive. just because someone has a password dosn;t mean they are cheating. maybe you have always been in control and this is her way of wanting her freedom. its a lot like a teenager who is rebelling. it doens't necesairly mean they are doing osmething wrong but its there way of saying i want my space and when i am ready I will reach out to you again.
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By: athena480 on: 01/28/2010 11:43 PM

Have you found anything out yet?

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By: roby27 on: 09/28/2009 10:21 PM
Been there done that with my husband.  Locked the phone, always in his pocket, etc.  Go with your gut on this one.  It wasn't good news on this end.  So you need to ask yourself if you really want to know the answer.  If you do. Pull her cell phone bill.  The answers will be right there  unless she has that locked down as well.   She is only going to be able to pull this off for so long and then she will get sloppy.   But you  need to be prepared for what happens and look out for the kids. 

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