Member Login
Forgot password? >>     

Category: Dealing With the Hurt
Conversation: Seeing wife softens heart. Report Abuse
Started by: David on: 10/02/2009 05:44 PM
After spending three months completely unable to talk to my wife (thanks to a wrongful injunction), I get a passing chance to talk to her for 10 minutes. Despite all the horror she caused (and will yet cause), my heart ached when I saw her. Her actions have destroyed all of my trust and respect in her, but my heart still melted when I saw her.

I don't know if I am really still in love with her or if my 24 year emotional connection is refusing to let go. My head say to walk away, but my heart is asking me to wait.

I would like to know from those of you out there who have "been there - done that" if what I feel is normal. How did you handle regrets and second guessing? Was it hard to separate the conflict between the head and the heart?
1 commentsLast comment: 10/03/2009 01:28 PM
Reply

Report Abuse
By: randomuser1105 on: 10/03/2009 01:28 PM
I'm still fighting these feelings with my husband. They're the reason I haven't divorced him yet. He keeps cheating on me with men but I still love him even though everyone has told me how stupid it is to stay with him and I know in my head that I should have cut things off with him years ago. I can't give the best advice because I'm in a similar situation, but for myself, I have to get through these feelings to do what I know is best for me. I can't keep going through these cycles and I can't continue to let someone treat me like this.

Friend's Email:
Provide your comment:
Cancel
Join up, move on!
No matter stage of divorce you're in, we can help.
 
 
Refer Friends
Resource Directory
Get Help! Find Professionals in Your Area.
Joke of the Day
Joke Title:  Housekeeping
Joke:  He taught me housekeeping; when I divorce I keep the house - Zsa Zsa Gabor
Xstilla Member Journals
My blog
October 14, 2011 at 11:35 AM
here is my...
0 Comments
read more  
It's over
July 02, 2011 at 06:54 PM
The last 7 years of my marriage were a lie. She said things were great and then I came home to a note "It is time for me to...
0 Comments
read more  
spell-caster brought my back my boyfriend...
July 02, 2011 at 12:33 PM
I recently saw a testimony about a spell caster of some sort in a blog I visit for relationship and dating counseling problems because i had been having serious issues with my boyfriend and we had been dating for six months,he just suddenly changed,he...
0 Comments
read more  
hi
May 27, 2011 at 03:42 PM
"Hello my name is Bridget I'm tall and nice looking girl i saw your profile today, at divorcecommunity and i became interested in you, so i decided to drop you some words just to say hello and to ask how your day was,i will like to known more about...
0 Comments
read more