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Started by: patticakes128 on: 06/29/2009 05:17 PM
Hi - I'm new to this group and I think I just need to know I'm not the only person having gone through a divorce and am still having a hard time even after almost 2 years.

Mine is more of a story of cold-hearted dysfunctional in-laws who had/have no regard for their daughter-in-law and especially their grandchildren. 25 years ago tomorrow, I married a Momma's Boy. He was great at first but as the years went on a lot of things happened and he couldn't hold a job, had health issues he wasn't addressing and preferred to just stay home and be depressed all the time. It finally got to the point where he just listened to what Mommy said and never defended me when she said nasty things about me (although he swears he did, but never in front of me). He always found someone in the family to bail us out of debt but never once showed any appreciation. I personally think he had a nervous breakdown and/or mid-life crisis. He had no motivation at all - unless it had to do with sports!

A lot more things happened both emotionally and financially.

Anyone out therewith the same sort of story?

Pat
1 commentsLast comment: 01/29/2010 12:02 AM
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By: athena480 on: 01/29/2010 12:02 AM
Similar... We have only been married a little over a year. He wont hold a job, his mom and her new husband moved in and moved out 3 months later cause it was hard on us. He finds someone to bail us out but then uses them. He sold half of the gift cards for food that we got, and wanted his mom to send money for food when we had it. He minipulates people. and I feel like he does it to me and I let it.

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