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Conversation: help temporary support
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Started by: naz123
on: 09/12/2009 11:44 PM |
| filed for divorce 3 years ago judge ordered temporary support to cover mortgage and expenses husband did not pay for two years attorney doing nothing what can i do |
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Conversation: support of spouse during divorce
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Started by: carrann1234@Yahoo.com
on: 07/13/2009 04:09 PM |
| How can I petition the court to have my husband of 18yrs (husband cheated/lied and moved to three different homes with her) to pay all bills in this home first? |
| 2 commentsLast comment: 07/20/2009 01:25 AM |
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Conversation: What do you do when you're left homeless?
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Started by: Stella
on: 02/14/2009 06:57 PM |
I initiated the divorce and my husband filed for the divorce. I wanted us to see a mediator but he said that he went and that he did not like what the mediator had to say ,so the next thing I know I'm being served divorce papers (2006).
He moved out of the house on me in 2007. I have been staying where ever I can lay my head, I am unemployed and there are no facilities out there for displaced housewives. I have been married for 22 years, I am 50 y/o, I have two children, both are in college.
I went to public assistance,however, it seem that if I were a drug addict or had 7 children it would be easier for me to get help. I have been out here trying to find a job to no avail, that sneaky husband of mine has not given a penny to help me get on my feet, the attorney I have isn't much help because I'm unable to pay, I don't know what to do I am running out of steam.
My husband is filing bankruptcy, the house is in foreclosure, I did plan to rent out three of the bedrooms but would not have been able to come up with the mortgage payment, for, he refinanced and the payment was $3600.00 a month (adjustable). The three rooms would have brought in $1500.00 but I still needed $1600.00.
My attorney said that the court said all was settled but I still do not a pot to (pppppp) in or a window to throw it out of.
I try so hard to remain positive and to think only of the things I want in my life but it's getting the best of me. I'm trying to fined my way.
Thank you to anyone who reads my post. |
| 2 commentsLast comment: 04/04/2009 10:58 AM |
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Conversation: Step-kids
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Started by: dyinginside
on: 12/23/2008 11:54 PM |
Anyone have an experience with this? I've been married for 13 years. We just separated. Mid-life crisis -him. HIS children have decided to live with me (step-mom) . They are adult childrent (freshmen in college) and dad moved out 2 months ago. What in the world is happening here? They don't want to live with their natural mom- in another city- and dad has moved into a buddies bachelor pad (we call it the frat house). We haven't started the divorce preceedings, but can I get extra "support" for feeding/housing/driving around his children? Don't get me wrong, thank God they are here or I would be completely alone, but has anyone ever heard of this scenario? We haven't begun to talk money and the future yet. Any thoughts??? |
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Conversation: Liable for my ex's missed work?
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Started by: rich p
on: 12/06/2008 11:59 AM |
| My son had to go to court on a minor violation -- curfew -- and my ex wife went to court with him a couple of times. Everything is cool there -- he's a good kid -- but my ex is now saying I have to pay his court costs and her missed work. I don't really think I have to pay half of the court costs, but I am willing to do that, even though I am sure she would refuse to pay if the violation had occurred during my watch; however, I can't see how she can expect me to pay her missed work. Her claim is that I am paid for a limited number of sick days and she is not; therefore I am responsible since I didn't take a day off to take him. Obviously I am concerned about my son, but this was a relatively minor thing, I have some health issues and need to take the time off to attend to them, and, besides, they live 50 miles away. I certainly would have been there in the incident of an illness, accident, or serious crime. I know that if this had happened around my house she would clearly not have paid anything, court costs included. Any experience in the matter? |
| 2 commentsLast comment: 12/28/2008 06:27 PM |
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Conversation: should i go to court and adjust my childsupport
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Started by: lookin4deal2
on: 11/12/2008 03:59 PM |
Ive come to realize that my ex of almost 2yrs will not let up with nickel and diming me for extras outside of what i give her every month. I have been a good about giving half toward sports activities and odd and end things that im not required. I didnt get a lawyer and she did and we settled for what i thought was fair. I decided to research the support calculator online and found out that im paying $477.00 to much a month because she listed $650.00 work related afterschool care during the divorce. Well all of our kids have been in school 8mnth after the divorced happend and do not require any after school or work related care. My budget is thin due to the credit card debt i agreed to pay from the divorce. Would it be selfish of me to take her to court and have that adjusted so im not paying so much? We have 4 kids so the amount is pretty healthy. Has anybody been through this that can comment on this ?
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Conversation: Husband wont pay, and noone will help me
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Started by: ephie_rn
on: 11/01/2008 04:07 PM |
| This is ridiculous. My Ex is no refusing to pay me all together. He was ordered to pay CS and I was generous enough to allow him to pay 1/2 on the 1st and 1/2 on the 15th. Now he is saying that he can't pay for a month or two. |
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Conversation: 401K?
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Started by: prosperme
on: 07/15/2008 01:42 PM |
| I'm currently a stay-at-home mom taking care of the kids. Am I entitled to divorce alimony and 401K from my X? |
| 1 commentsLast comment: 08/19/2008 08:36 PM |
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Conversation: nit-picking
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Started by: mhc20
on: 07/05/2008 09:20 AM |
| How many of you out there get nit-picked for small bills? I pay enormous amounts in child support and maintenance. Why must I get hen pecked to death for half of an $8 spiral notebook bill? Isn't there a thing called "good judgement"? |
| 3 commentsLast comment: 07/15/2008 02:13 PM |
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Conversation: Women are breadwinners, too!
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Started by: Phillyfan
on: 07/03/2008 11:30 AM |
| Why is it that men always pretend to be the only ones providing for their families? Get a grip, we're not in the 19th century! Seriously, I make 50K more than my ex...and he still puts on the airs to strangers that 'he has to pay spousal support.' This stereotype is so frustrating to me!!! |
| 3 commentsLast comment: 07/15/2008 01:46 PM |
